Project 365

Welcome! This is my own 365 project of creating at least one post per day about the stuff that I learnt, achieved, and found, the stuff that made me happy, or the new thing I did every single day.

The project was started on 21 February 2010. It has stopped for few times but I am determined to continue!

This project is dedicated to myself. I want to feel grateful for every single thing I have. I want to be thankful for my own life. I just want to feel that I have enough.

Category: Ramblings

Ordinary Day

I had a decent day today. I was so excited to meet him again and spend time with him for the whole day, but got really disappointed when he cancelled it in the last minute 🙁 I couldn’t say anything when it came to family, so I let it go. It does seem like I haven’t met him for weeeeks already! But I’ve only met him last Monday! Grrr… He promised to come on Wednesday… so I hope there won’t be any cancellations!

Thankfully, Ari was still at home when he told me he couldn’t come and I told her to stay. Qonit and Reyhan then came over and they brought us some foods! 😀 At least, I didn’t have to cook today (I was expecting him to cook for me! :D). I had another interesting girl talks with Ari, as usual. It’s fun!

Ari and I are planning to go to Utrecht to Jessie’s place next Saturday. We’re planning to sleep over and have girl talks for alllllll night loooonggg! Hahaha. Then we’re gonna go to Lisse to see the tulip fields 🙂 Gonna be exciting! I’m planning to meet up with Maureen tooooo…. Miss her too much!

Keeping Myself Busy

Finally. Finished the Knowledge Management report, alhamdulillah. Went to teh Rita’s place after 2 weeks of absence (due to trip and illness). Helped mas Umar with his C# webservice project…

Somehow, there’re too many things to be thankful for 🙂

Am I Happier?

My good friend Ari has been sleeping in my room for 2 days now. We’ve been talking, talking, and talking… updating each other about our life. The last time I saw her was right after the German road trip. So it’s been two months already!!!

Today she told me that I looked much happier. She even observed that the way I told her about him was very different with the way I told her about some other guys that I had involved with. I was like, what?!?! 😀 Hahaha.

Well. Perhaps, it’s still fresh from the oven. I’m still on the “exciting” phase. I’m like a new-born baby! 😀

Life is great, alhamdulillah.

2 Types of Relationship

Open relationship. A relationship in which the two people are free to have emotional and/or physical relationships with other partners, often within mutually agreed limits.

Casual relationship. A physical and emotional relationship between two people without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship.

How about the blend of these two? What do they call such relationship? Hmm… 🙂

Australia: Drinking Problem

I recently read news about the government’s plan to impose a 1-hour earlier closing time for pubs and clubs in the state of Queensland. Currently, a lock-out time is 3am (which means people cannot enter entertainment venues after 3am, even though they have been inside before) and shutting time is 5am. The proposed plan aims at reducing the risk of alcohol-fueled violence, which is very common in Queensland by the way. But many young people oppose this plan, of course — and try so hard to stop the government not to impose it.

When I was in Brisbane, I used to live in the center, between the city center and the Fortitude Valley. I remember how unsecured I was to be walking alone at 9pm or even earlier during the weekends (and by the way, Fortitude Valley was the most dangerous place to be in Brisbane at night). People got drunk on the street. Screaming. Laughing. Threw stuff. Fighting. I heard and saw those. It was a scary scene. I loathe to take a night train or night bus because I can smell the alcohol from far away. It’s disgusting! Not to mention to hear those people screaming and swearing! For some reasons, when they got drunk, they became really crazy. And really scary!

How come I’ve never seen the kind of scene in the Netherlands? (Oh I hope I’ll never encounter this!). But still, I sometimes come home at 12am or 2am and I feel okay. I’m always careful, of course; but I’ve never seen such crazy drunk people on the street.

Anyway… after reading the news, I discovered this article titled “A wake-up call to all Australians – not just ‘apathetic’ youth”. I need to cite a number of paragraphs here:

What is staring us in the face is the one thing nobody wants to address – Australia’s drinking culture.

It sounds scary I know, and even worse it’s not an issue reserved purely for the ‘apathetic’ youth. I hate to rain on anyone’s parade but Australia has a drinking problem and it’s about time we took a real hard look at ourselves.

The damage alcohol causes to Australians is all too clear, with 1500 hospital admissions each week and 3,000 deaths per year. Not to mention the increasing public concern of lawless cities spurred on by regular reports of alcohol-related assaults, knifings and glassings. I doubt that a lockout is going to fix these problems, nor will increased police presence. What we’re in need of is a big old shake up.

It’s a scary thing. 1500 hospital admissions each week due to alcohol damage?!?! That’s insane.

Well, I agree with the author; earlier lock-out doesn’t solve the root of the problems. And I bet that violence on the street will likely to increase if the premises are to be shut down earlier. More people will get drunk on the street rather than on the pubs or clubs and that’ll certainly create more problems!

The government runs a survey whether many people would agree on the proposal of earlier lock-out. We’ll see what the end result would be. But I think they won’t make it a go 😀

I’m back!

Glad to be healthy again! For the past few days, I’ve been very very very sick. In the beginning it was just a sore throat. But then it got worse and worse. The headache came. The fever got through. My throat didn’t get any better. It was really painful! I couldn’t get out of my room for few days. I was very weak. I was on bed for the whole day. Being sick without anyone by your side (i.e. family) was the worst thing about living alone.

But alhamdulillah. I’m blessed that some people came to visit. Teh Rita & Mas Umar brought me some foods during the time when I really ran out of foods 🙂 Jimmy came over to bring me some lemons for my throat. Agni came too; though he came for the purpose of his paper, but he was kind enough to do some small shopping for me. Ian also took care of me for almost the whole day. Thank you all! 🙂

It really is hard to keep up with this project during the time like this, when I’m sick or when I’m out of the country. Well, the truth is that I enjoy doing it and I’m not going to stop. But perhaps, there will be some holes and I’m going to try not to create them anymore. Hehehe. I’ll try.

Just Stay…

Every time I look into your eyes I know how much you care about me. And how much you want me to be happy. And every time I am with you I can feel the warmth that I’ve been longing to have.

We are destined to be apart. But I want you to stay and just be my friend. Nothing else.

The Feeling of Grateful

Thank you for being the best company ever. I enjoyed it every moment with you. And I can’t ask for more.

Sick

I was sick the whole day. So I didn’t do much and there is nothing to write about. I’m just blessed to be given another day to stand. Blessed to hear your voice. And blessed for everything 🙂

Moluccas Islands: the Conflict

… continuation from the previous post.

During our coffee time, I asked mbak Linda few things about the conflict in Maluku which occurred in 1999 between the Christian and Muslim groups. She told me that Christians and Muslims in Maluku were very peaceful and never had any problems. There were some provocateurs, which were allegedly done by our former dictator Soeharto, who forced these two groups to fight against each other. When the conflict ended, it was discovered that these people were forced to fight — if not, then these provocateurs would do something nasty, for example raping female relatives. So the Maluku people had no other choice than to cause terror against each other. Mbak Linda also told me that Maluku people were originally Muslims, until the Dutch made some of them to convert to Christian. She even told me that her great-grand mother was a Muslim and some of her far relatives were Muslims. During the conflict, her hometown in Ambon was totally burned, apparently by the Indonesian army. Yet another strange thing about this conflict!

Gosh, I loved to know about these things straight from the locals. They were the ones who knew the situation really well. They were first-hand witnesses or at least had relatives who experienced it. It fascinated me how these kind of details made a difference to how we view and judge others. It made us understand the whole situation better than just by relying on media which was apparently good in exaggerating stuff (and not to mention the censorship done by the government!). If we could build this kind of understanding and tolerance towards others, the world will be in a much better state.